Before starting this ritual please understand that this is not a hex or act of violence towards the individual you wish to cut ties with. This is simply to restore your own power and energetic boundaries. It is best to perform this ritual with the intent of letting go and moving forward in compassion.
You will need:
Two Candles
2 Small Glass Cups
Sea Salt/ Himalayan Salt
Hemp Cord
Sage/ Mugwort/ Palo Santo for smoke cleansing
Florida Water
Paper and Pen
Lighter/ Matches
Fireproof Bowl
Optional: Assorted Crystals
Instructions :
Fill small glass cups with enough salt to hold the candles upright and sturdy. Tie each end of the cord to each candle and place them in the salt-filled cups and place them on a fireproof surface far enough apart to leave a small amount of slack in the cord.
Before starting the ritual cleanse your space and yourself. I.e Spray Florida water in the space and consecrate yourself from head to toe with smoke.
Make sure you are in a clear headspace and have taken a few deep breaths.
On your paper write all of the things you received from the relationship with the person you wish to cut ties with. The good, the bad, how they made you feel and what you’ve learned from the relationship.
Light both candles and slowly move the paper into one of the candle flames. As you do this recite ( either aloud or in your head) “ Person’s name , thank you for the lessons learned, I take both the good and bad. This part of our soul contract is now complete. I release you from my energy field, blessed be” Place the ashes of your paper in the fireproof bowl. ( you may need tongs for this part)
Now it is time for the final cord-cutting. Light a stick of incense and using the flame light the centre of the cord. As it burns, recite(either aloud or in your head) “ I now release the ties that bind. I now claim that which is mine. I am enough. Blessed be, and so it is” x3 while allowing the cord to burn fully to each candle.
Allow the candles to burn down completely, when they have finished burning the ritual is sealed. As the candles burn feel the energy of letting go and being free.